This is the first time you will experience what it feels to have your heart broken. Just like how the euphoria of falling in love is intense, so is the heartbreak. Heartbreak is an undefined understatement This is why the memories of your first love will remain in your mind for the rest of your life - because you will never have such a carefree state of mind in your life again. You may never get to experience the absolute and carefree experience of falling in love and enjoying each and every moment of it without having other responsibilities lingering over your head. There was no question of how I’d find the time, but I believe if you really care about something or someone that you’ll make time.īasically, your first love was your full-time job.Īs you grow older, your life is burdened with many new responsibilities, year after year. Most of my classes were on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays so on Tuesdays and Thursdays and weekends I’d spend a majority of the day with him. This gave me all the time in the world to immerse myself in love. I had no other responsibilities except to do well in class. This is the time when there are no spiraling, mortgage payments, job insecurities and many other things that make daily life a melting pot waiting to burst open. My first love came into my life at the age of 19. Having your first love usually happens at a young age. I didn't like arguing with him seeing him angry only made me angrier. My anger came from the fact that we were actually arguing rather than the argument itself. I was extremely passionate when we had arguments because I wanted him to understand how truly I loved him. This intense range of emotional highs and lows makes this a once in a lifetime roller coaster ride - never to be repeated. The downer after every little fight and argument is exhausting. However, it is also extremely emotionally intense. The sheer bliss of feeling love for the first time will engrave all the sweet memories in your mind forever. I thought of him as a perfect little angel that God placed in my life to rescue me from loneliness. The first few weeks of our relationship was perfect as ever (from my point of view at least). No matter how old you get, no matter how mature you become, you will always crave this perfect love in your relationships. This sense of perfection creates memories that are hard to forget. There are no wrongs, no complications and no expectations when first love is blossoming. Your love knows only one language, the one spoken by your heart. When you’re in love for the first time, you believe that your love is perfect. Couples experiencing love in a relationship for the first time immerse themselves in this blissful perfection. When in love for the first time it may seem perfect from all angles. Even after a bitter breakup, you will find it impossible to see yourself living your life without your first love. The sense of attachment is hard to break away from. This is the time when a simple act of holding hands makes you sweat, and a romantic hug gives you goosebumps all over your body. Physical intimacy is usually experienced with first crushes and first loves. This happens because experiencing intimacy for the first time gets stuck in the memory forever. Their faces will glow because it is simply priceless from the liberating memory. Experiencing intimacy for the first time: holding hands, hugs, cuddles and kissesĪsk anyone about the memories of their first kiss, first hug, first cuddle and the first time they had sex. Here are eight reasons why the beautiful memories of this once in a lifetime experience will linger in your heart and mind after your breakup for the rest of your life. People in love for the first time will forever remember the hugs, cuddles, holding hands, sweet whispers, car rides, late night conversations and the romantic strolls. It is like the memories of all other 'firsts' in your life, except that this one is stronger. Having a first love is when you let go and take a dive into the unknown.